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BWI of the Bay Area's Baywide Summer Picnic, 2016!

Join BWI-BA for a family picnic at Castro Valley Community Park on Sunday, August 21, 2016! If you’ve been to one of our previous picnics, remember this is at a different location! All family members and friends are welcome to party with us. (Sorry, the park does not allow dogs.) Meet babywearers from all over the Bay Area and try on carriers from all of our libraries. This is the only time each year when ALL 11 of our subchapters will have their libraries in one place! VBEs will be available to help you with your own carrier or one of our library carriers.

 

We also have a bunch of carriers that we need to distribute between the libraries! Help us figure out where they go and lobby for your favorite to be in a library near you!  We’ll be playing some games to help us decide, you won’t want to miss the hilarious things we come up with for your amusement!

 

There is a big site with lots of tables this year, but bring a blanket if you want to sit on the nearby lawn. Don’t forget a towel for the splash pad! We request that you also bring your own reusable plates, utensils, and cups, and napkins for eco-friendliness. 

 

You can let us know what you’re bringing and see what others are bringing to the potluck below. A yummy, babywearing-themed cake may be on the menu!
     
Google form:  https://goo.gl/forms/EClNfuV5WQKn5MDq2
Google sheet:  
http://tinyurl.com/baywidepotluck

 

(The google form is easier to see on mobile devices, the google sheet shows what everyone else plans to bring!)

 

This event will also include our annual membership meeting. Learn about what we’ve been doing and what plans we have for BWI-BA. This is a great opportunity to talk to BWI-BA’s leadership about your thoughts and ideas, what it takes to become a VBE, other ways you can volunteer, and any other administrative topic that are on your mind. 

 

If you are a dues-paying BWI member you should have received an email with information about the election of the Board of Directors. If you did not, please contact us at bayarea@babywearinginternational.org.

 

We can’t wait to see you!

 

 

BWI-BA Baywide Summer Picnic 2016
Sunday, August 21, 2016, 11:00A – 2:00P
Castro Valley Community Park
18988 Lake Chabot Road

Castro Valley, CA 94546
 

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What’s IBC anyway?

When I told people that I was headed to the International Babywearing Conference July 14th – 18th in Atlanta, the most frequent reaction was, “…the what? They have a conference for that? What would you even do?” I’d never been before, so I didn’t have a great answer for them. What DO you do at a babywearing conference? Luckily for all of you, several of your friendly VBE’s (Volunteer Babywearing Educators) attended this year and over the next couple weeks we will be sharing more in-depth some of the things we learned.

 

So what do you do at a babywearing conference? Turns out you do a lot! The days were packed with great sessions geared toward a wide audience. There were classes specifically for educators, enthusiasts, and medical professionals, on everything from Social Justice, kangaroo care, carrier geekery, teaching tips, history of babywearing, traditional carriers, and more! There were multiple sessions going on at once which made choosing which to attend really difficult.

 

When we weren’t going to sessions, we spent a lot of time talking about each other’s sessions and just bonding as a team. That part was really important, especially to me as both a newer VBE and new to the Bay Area. I got an opportunity to really get to know some of my fellow educators that I haven’t been able to spend much time with. I learned a lot just by talking with them and sharing experiences.

 

There was also an amazing vendor hall, including some locals! It was so fun to browse carriers, accessories, and talk with many of the manufacturers themselves. There were some cool exclusive releases and a lot of great deals (maybe popping up in a Library near you!). It was a great opportunity to try out some carriers that we don’t see much, or that are brand new, partially in the interests of being able to answer questions as they come up but also just because we love to try new things!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Me trying out the new XOXO carrier with a demo doll)

 

In addition to the vendor hall, BWI and many of the brands hosted shindigs that went from pretty informal meetups to full-blown cocktail parties. There were giveaways and contests and a lot of getting to meet internet friends in real life!

(Jay, Anna, Laura, Martha, and Gena at the BWI reception. Check out the sweet water bottles!)

 

It was great to see how much thought Babywearing International and the Conference Committee put into pulling together such a big conference. There were 700+ people registered, and that’s not counting kids and caregivers that came along but weren’t necessarily attending the conference! There was childcare available, a nursing/pumping room, and approximately 540 ounces of breastmilk donated to local organizations. Even things like including a water bottle in the (very sturdy) swag bag showed a lot of care and consideration.

 

 (Gena and Libby and so many babywearers!)

 

It was such a great opportunity to learn, browse, and build community – both local and far away! I got home exhausted, but also full of new ideas on how to better reach communities here, new teaching tools, and only one new wrap! I consider it a great success and look forward to seeing what’s planned for the next International Babywearing Conference in 2018!

 

(If you want to know more about the sessions/sponsors/vendors from IBC 2016, check out the website! http://www.internationalbabywearingconference.com/)

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March Magic Membership Drive 2016 – and the new Pay It Forward Program

 

Once again, it’s time for Babywearing International of the Bay Area’s March Magic Membership Drive!  Yes, we’re asking you for money.  This is a little long and there aren’t lots of pictures, but we hope it’s not as annoying as the pledge drives they have on KQED!  There is a quiz at the end…but it’s worth it because there are prizes!

 

Besides the prizes (and more on that below), why should you hand over your hard-earned money for membership in BWI of the Bay Area?

Memberships Make Magic

 

When you support BWI-BA by making a donation of just $30 for annual membership dues, you get the benefit of free borrowing from our learning library – and most of the money we collect in membership dues is spent on buying library carriers.  Most members join because they want to try out a carrier before buying their own, without the hassle and expense of trial-and-error buying and trading online.  And while we do allow non-members to check out carriers for a small fee and with a deposit each time, keep this in mind:  Not only do different carriers work best for different people, but also different carriers work best at different developmental stages for baby (and you know how fast they go through those!), so a membership is a great way to freely try out new things not just right now, but also in three or six or nine months when your baby is outgrowing the carrier that’s perfect now!

 

Plus?  We have a long and growing list of businesses where you can get a discount just by showing your BWI-BA membership card.  A lot of them sell baby carriers.  Some of them are private babywearing consultants, or provide other  personal services that can be quite expensive.  If you’re about to spend several hundred dollars on products and services that benefit your new baby, your membership discounts could save you more than your $30 dues!

 

But what if you are struggling financially and can’t afford to buy a suitable baby carrier – discounts or no discounts?  By paying just $30 for a membership and coming to a meeting once a month, you can have a quality baby carrier to use every single day for an entire year, and never buy your own at all! So membership, with the benefit of free borrowing from our library, is a marvelous deal. For only $30 per year you can use a good quality, good looking carrier that’s just right for you, your baby, and your life at every stage, without spending time or money on shopping or shipping.  (If $30 is more than you can spend, don’t get discouraged, and keep reading.  We have a new program you’ll be interested in, and you can still enter the March Magic Membership Prize Drawing!)

 

Now, maybe you’re thinking you don’t need the library and won’t use the member discounts.  Maybe you have an enviable carrier stash already.  Maybe your last baby is starting kindergarten soon and you’re selling off your stash rather than adding to it.  Maybe you really enjoy the buy/sell/trade boards!  And that’s awesome.  But you should be a member too – and if you can, you should make an additional donation for a gift or pay-it-forward membership.  Why?  Because a membership is an investment, not in cash, but in magic!  When a frustrated, confused, or just plain worn-out caregiver settles his or her baby into a comfortable hands-free carry, for the first time, it’s an absolutely magical moment.  Every Volunteer Babywearing Educator has seen the look on the face of a new babywearer who is experiencing that magical moment, and we never get tired of it. Seeing that moment is so rewarding when you have helped to make it happen.  And you don’t have to be a VBE in order to help it happen.  Making those magical moments for as many people as possible does take money.

 

Our VBEs and many other dedicated members give our time and the benefit of our experience for free, but from buying carriers to printing brochures, BWI-BA uses materials that cost money, and more money allows us to reach more people, and do more magic.  Become a member, and help make magic happen.  And if you don’t need the membership benefits yourself, or if you can afford more than just one membership, make a gift to a friend (we’ll even send you a lovely printable gift certificate) or make a donation to our new pay-it-forward program. 

The Pay-It-Forward Membership Program

 

Ever heard of a “suspended coffee” or  a “pinned pizza slice”?  Ever paid the bridge toll or fast food drive-through bill for the person behind you, or paid off a stranger’s Christmastime layaway account at Kmart?  BWI-BA’s new Pay-It-Forward Program works in a similar way.  We’re asking those who can, to make a donation earmarked to fund membership for the next Bay Area babywearer (or would-be babywearer) who could really use the library borrowing benefits but cannot afford the $30 dues.

 

During the month of March we’ll be setting up the administrative systems to make the program work, and we’ll accept your donations for the purpose starting now – and at any time in the future!  If you donate $30 or more by the end of this month, you’ll get extra chances to win a prize in our March Magic Membership Drive prize drawing!  All you have to do in order to donate a Pay It Forward Membership is to make a note on your PayPal payment, or tell us in person or by email that you want your cash, check, or credit card payment to be a Pay It Forward donation.  You can use the “Donate” button on the Support Us page, or log into your own PayPal account and send $30 (or any amount) to bayareababywearers@yahoo.com, or make a donation by cash, check, or credit card at any meeting.

 

Beginning in April we’ll use the pay-it-forward funds to grant memberships, on a “first come, first served” basis as funding allows, to low-income Bay Area babywearers who complete a simple application and attend a meeting to start their membership.  If you receive WIC or MediCal benefits, you are eligible to receive a pay-it-forward membership.  If you don’t have WIC or MediCal, you may still qualify; we will ask you to tell us a little more about your situation and how you will benefit from access to BWI-BA membership.  More details about the application process will of course be available next month, and changes may be made in the future depending on the balance of donations and applications we receive. But no matter what, we promise that applying will not be complicated and your privacy will be protected.

 

We hope that this new Pay-It-Forward Program will help Bay Area babywearers in need get the most out of our meetings and our library, and that it will inspire our financially fortunate members and fans to give us more membership money for making more magic!

Prizes!

 

BWI-BA’s leadership has always been grateful and proud to have members who are kind, generous, and welcoming to babywearers from every walk of life.  You all seriously do make magic, all the time, already. And as a thank-you, whether you’re giving money or supporting us in other ways, we’re awarding prizes! 

We have some amazing prizes to give away this year, thanks to generous donors BabyloniaUSA, Smitten, Lullaby Links, Abrazame: Hold Me With Love and others listed on the contest page.  Think how magical it will feel if you’re the winner of a brand new BB Tai, Smitten woven wrap, Waldorf-inspired Peppa Doll or fabulous doll carrier!

 

You can enter to win one of these fabulous items by answering a simple quiz about different ways to support BWI-BA’s efforts to make magical moments for more Bay Area babywearers.  You’ll have additional chances to win if you’re a member, and even more additional chances to win if you join, renew, gift, or sponsor a Pay-It-Forward membership during the month of March.

 

So, go here to sign up and send money.  And go here to enter the prize contest

 

 

Of course, you can also join and donate at any meeting.  And just as an extra bonus, if you make a membership dues donation (for yourself, as a gift or Pay It Forward) in person at any meeting during March 2016, we’ll give you a discount coupon for Happy Baby snack food – while supplies last.

 

Carry on!

 

 

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Newsletter: 2014 in review, and Happy New Year!

By Holly McCroskey Lewis, BWI-BA Secretary-Treasurer

 

As we all return from our winter holiday break, Babywearing International of the Bay Area is finally sending out its 2014 year-end “holiday letter”.  We want to report to you all on the amazing year we’ve had!  Forgive us if we brag a little.  You all get some of the credit, after all, especially if you’re a dues-paying member, or have volunteered your time to help run meetings and events, or have donated a baby carrier or two to us!

 

Using membership dues and fundraising proceeds, during 2014 BWI-BA purchased 80 carriers for our libraries: One pouch, 13 mei tais, 17 buckle carriers, 24 ring slings, and 25 wraps!  Plus, two suitcases and several demo dolls.  And these numbers do not include the carriers that were donated to us, of which there were also a substantial number and great variety.  Our combined libraries now contain more than 260 items – every type of carrier, plus accessories like infant inserts and sling rings, and educational materials such as instructional DVDs.

 

We added two new meeting locations in 2014 (Livermore and Campbell), bringing our number of subchapters to seven – and we have two more launching early in the new year (the long-wanted Marin meeting beginning this month in Mill Valley, and an evening meeting coming soon in East San Jose).

 

We’ve added nine new Volunteer Babywearing Educators to our chapter this year, for a current total of 16.  And two of our VBEs qualified as Advanced Babywearing Educators this year – Congratulations to Jay and Cristina!  (We already had one Master Babywearing Educator, Sarah R.)  We have great breadth and depth of skills here, and I count myself fortunate to work with such a fantastic leadership group.

 

On average, we’ve helped 154 people each month – that’s the average total attendance at all of our meetings since Livermore and Campbell launched in early 2014.  Individual meetings range from an average of 14 or 15 people, up to nearly 40!  And that’s counting only the adults, not the babies.

We’re averaging more than 20 new members every month, and our current membership roster is 259 people (including the 16 VBEs).  To give some sense of how crazily fast we’ve grown:  In all of 2013, we had 58 new members (not counting VBEs).  In 2012, we had 18.  That rate of expansion is insane; I have no words for just how astonishing and wonderful – and sometimes overwhelming! – it really is.  Not to mention that those who sign up for membership are only a fraction of the number we’ve reached at meetings and through our online presence!  Our Facebook page, which we created in April 2014, boasts 779 “likes”, and our Facebook group (in existence since 2009) now has 1,988 members.  Our Yahoo Group, still creaking along since its formation way back in August 2005 (under a different name – that was before BWI existed), has 1157 members.

 

This was a big year for us in other ways too.  We launched a website, and vastly increased our outreach efforts, notably by running the “babywearing lounge” at MommyCon SF in April.  We also participated in a dozen smaller events, from making a video for a “So You Think You Can Dance” contest, to being counted for the Babywearing World Record, to teaching and promoting babywearing at baby fairs and other events serving parents and caregivers from every walk of life.

 

We also organized some big fundraisers – another new endeavor for BWI-BA.  Many thanks to all who bought t-shirts with our logo (and promote us by wearing them!) and those who booked photo shoots during International Babywearing Week, plus of course a huge thank you to Alli, our photographer who donated her services.  Adding the proceeds of those efforts to the Amazon Smile program and some cash donations, we’ve raised a net total of $915 this year.  That number is small compared to what we receive from membership dues, but it’s a very satisfying result for the first year we’ve made any real effort to fundraise beyond the membership program.

 

Looking forward, we have many exciting new things in the works, including new meeting locations, greater efforts to work with underprivileged families and help them benefit from everything babywearing can offer them, a program for recruiting and training new VBEs, a better library lending system and ID tags, new fundraising efforts that we think you’ll like, and yes, of course, we expect to buy a whole lot more library carriers for you, our members and fans, to play with and learn from.  Thank you so much for telling your friends about us, for joining our Facebook group, for coming to meetings and listening to us and borrowing carriers and signing up to support us as members.  We’re so thrilled to be spreading the babywearing love throughout the Bay Area!

 

Happy New Year!

 

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2014 International Babywearing Week!

Mark your calendars for International Babywearing Week 10/5-10/11. Here is what we have in store! Join our FB group where in-person and virtual events will be posted! 

 

**Please make note of the following location change:  Unfortunately the Babywearing World Record event on Sunday, 10/5 is the same day as the Bridge to Bridge Run that ends at Golden Gate Bridge.The entire area will be crowded and busy with no parking. We have moved the event across the bay to Shorebird Park on the Berkeley Marina. We hope that you will all still be able to attend and are so sorry for the last minute notice.***

https://www.facebook.com/groups/BWIBayArea/

 

 

 

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Newsletter: IBC, IBW, carrier donations to our libraries and more!

Hi babywearing friends!

 

Babywearing International of the Bay Area has so many exciting things happening that we thought we’d send out a newsletter to update you all.

 

Last month several of your leaders and fellow local babywearers attended the International Babywearing Conference in Tempe, AZ. While only a few left with the flu, we all left with a renewed spirit for the role we play in educating, advocating and sharing the babywearing love! Many generous sponsors made donations to our lending library. We received an exclusive print ErgoBaby carrier which will live in the SF library, a Líllébaby Complete for Walnut Creek, and a size 4 Poe Wovens wrap for Berkeley. Also, in addition to the EIGHT Beco Baby Carriers that we received for teaming with Beco at MommyCon this spring, and the Gemini we received as a prize in the TBW relaunch contest, Beco donated an additional Gemini and Soleil at the conference!  That’s 11 carriers donated by Beco this year! All libraries now have at least one Gemini – our most popular SSC for young infants. Let’s show these vendors some love! If you have a library carrier on loan you love or maybe you have loved in the past, stop by their Facebook pages and say “Thanks!” 

 

We are working on increasing community outreach efforts, which was one of the main topics of interest in Tempe. This past weekend, Jay, Cristina and Sarah R. attended the Bay Area Birth Justice Fair. Sarah Rockwell reports, “We have made some great connections with birth workers and lactation educators in East Oakland. We’re planning to provide some babywearing education to the midwives at the Birth Center, the doulas at Sacred Birth Place, and to TaNefer and some of the other CLEs. This will allow them to help their clients directly with babywearing.”  We’re thinking of holding a carrier donation drive to benefit these organizations, for them to lend carriers to the mothers they serve who can’t afford to buy their own. We expect many of our members and regulars have stretchy wraps, pouches or other carriers that they no longer use and may be willing to donate. Watch our Facebook group for news on that effort. Also, Cristina and Jay have made some contacts with WIC programs and are working on similar efforts to educate and support the families served by WIC, and you can see Emily this Friday evening at the Livermore #LiveLoveLatch event, sponsored by La Leche League (https://www.facebook.com/events/595779233853036/) We’re excited about BWI-BA partnering with other groups that are working to improve the lives of new parents in communities that we don’t otherwise reach easily!

 

Which is not to say we aren’t reaching a great many families here in the Bay Area!  Meeting attendance and memberships are at record levels.  Most of your membership dues are allocated to expanding our libraries, and your librarians are currently looking to fill gaps and shopping to outfit their suitcases with carriers that are in demand. If you would like to see something specific added, speak up and maybe we can make it happen!

 

Thanks to all who participated in our first T-shirt sale! We enjoyed showing off our Bay Area logo in Tempe and hope you love your shirt too.  We raised more library funds that way as well, which we’re currently discussing exactly how to spend. We hope to do another t-shirt sale for IBW coming in October. What’s IBW, you ask? International Babywearing Week, October 6-12; this year’s theme is “Share the Adventure.” https://www.facebook.com/groups/IntlBabywearingWeek/ 

 

Sarah Rockwell has volunteered to lead the planning for our Bay Area IBW celebration. If you have any ideas or would like to help out, feel free to send her a message!

 

On the subject of new carriers for the library: I’m excited to share that you all are in for a very special treat! BWI-BA member Alli Novak has generously donated a one of a kind Pavo Guild woven wrap to our lending library! It’s called “Tango Love Birds” and it’s flying home to Berkeley. Because we anticipate that this wrap will be very popular, for the first few months that it’s in our library, we are instituting a special method for lending it out. Instead of first come, first served, we will make it available to new and current members by drawing names of those interested from a hat at the Berkeley meeting. As an incentive to boost membership, if you bring a friend along who signs up for membership, and the friend is actually interested in borrowing a more basic carrier, you may take an additional entry for that month’s drawing in their place.

 

Lastly, thanks to all who have been enthusiastically attending our meetings and spreading the word about our group. Remember to ask your leaders for business cards so you can pass them along to new families you meet in your everyday lives, and don’t forget to ask for a membership card so you can get those vendor discounts that Libby has arranged! Our meetings have been busy, we are working on many new projects, and we’re always looking for new leaders. If you’ve been babywearing for one year, have a good attitude and passion for helping others, becoming a VBE may be the gig for you! We can help you fine tune skills in your weak areas, so don’t hesitate if you’ve never used a pouch or a mei tai! We also would love volunteers at meetings to do various other tasks…greeting people as they arrive, helping with library check-ins and outs, etc. Send Sarah K. a message if you’re interested! 

 

Your BWI-BA officers,

 

Sarah Kemper, President

Holly McCroskey Lewis, Secretary/Treasurer

 

 

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SSC Tips & Tricks Week!

Let’s dish on your favorite buckles! We will focus on teaching each other our favorite tips & tricks to get the most out of our SSCs! Ideas and suggestions to get a good fit or try a new technique with your favorite buckle carrier. Join us in our FB group for live chat and get your questions answered.

 

https://www.facebook.com/events/715606271818804/permalink/721464741232957/

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Getting your ring sling on!

At the last BWI-BA Berkeley meeting, my co-leader and Master Babywearing Educator Sarah Rockwell observed that the method I always teach for putting on a ring sling, creating a good seat and ensuring that the rings do not travel down too far with the initial adjustments, is simple and effective — and differs in a few important details from what she most often sees babywearing educators use.

 

Different things, of course, will work best for different people; there are many “right” ways to get your sling on!  But Sarah thought my “standard basic ring sling demo” worth sharing more widely, and talked me into recording this video.

 

I’ve used this technique for 13 years, have described it countless times in the discussion forums at TheBabyWearer.com and taught it at babywearing group meetings for what seems like forever, but I’d never made a video.  We did this one at BWI-Bay Area’s annual picnic the next day (thus the background noise), and her phone camera ran out of memory halfway through (you’ll see the splice) but if you are new to ring slings or could use a teaching refresher, perhaps you will find this helpful.

 

~Holly McCroskey Lewis

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Babywearing In The Summer

by Sarah Rockwell

 

Today is Memorial Day – the start of summer. Summer means enjoying cookouts, running through sprinklers, and eating popsicles. It also means enduring heat and humidity. The summer heat may be welcome to many people, but for babywearers it’s a major concern. We wonder how we’ll ever be able to continue wearing our babies in the heat. So we read blogs that offer conflicting solutions to hot weather babywearing and wonder whether we need to buy all new carriers to endure the heat.

Here is the simple answer: NO. You do not need to buy all new carriers to babywear in the summer. 

If you’ve been planning to upgrade your Soft Structured Carrier it may be helpful to buy one with a mesh panel that will help keep baby somewhat cooler. If you’ve been wanting an excuse to try out a linen blend, 100% linen, or gauze wrap summer might be the ideal time. But you do not NEED to buy all new carriers to use in the summer. In fact, you probably shouldn’t buy all new carriers. Chances are you’ll regret selling carriers you love to buy what someone else thinks is comfortable in the heat. In reality no carrier will keep you cool when it’s 95 degrees and 70% humidity.

Babies are hot. They have a larger surface area to volume ratio than adults, so they dissipate heat rapidly. This means your little one will often feel like an oven. When you press that warm baby body against yours it will be hot. In hot weather it will be even hotter. I’ve been known to get sweaty while babywearing even in cool weather. My arms or legs or face may be cold, but my chest or back where baby’s body is pressed against mine gets hot and sweaty. There is no getting around it. When you babywear in the summer you will be hot and sweaty no matter what carrier you use. So, my advice to you is to use what you love. If you’re going to be hot and sweaty anyhow you might as well be comfortable otherwise. That said, there are some tips and tricks that will keep you a bit cooler in the heat without the need to revamp your entire stash:
 

  • Shade is your friend. Consider carrying a parasol or umbrella for portable shade. You may look silly, but you’ll be more comfortable.

  • Get a spray bottle with an attached battery-powered fan. Fill the bottle with ice water. Give yourself a spritz when you’re feeling too hot.

  • Stay hydrated and keep baby hydrated. Insulated water bottles and sippy cups will keep fluids cool. Remember to nurse or bottle-feed on demand.

  • A cooling towel like Chill-Its or Frogg Toggs can be placed between you and baby to help keep you both cooler.

  • A water-friendly carrier will allow you and baby to cool off by wading and splashing.

Yes, I did just suggest buying a new carrier. A water-friendly carrier is my only recommendation for purchasing a carrier for hot weather. If you can afford to buy a carrier specifically for summer, a water carrier is an inexpensive and useful addition to your carrier stash. Remember that it’s an addition and is not intended to replace any of your current carriers. If you have to sell in order to buy, a water carrier may not be ideal for you.Keep in mind that water carriers are not intended for swimming. But you can wade, play in the sprinklers, and support older children in shallow water while babywearing. There are a variety of water carriers available at different price points:

  • Solarveil Ring Slings and Pouches – If you’re willing to hunt the used carriers you can find a Solarveil carrier. Solarveil is a sun protective mesh polyester fabric that is no longer made. It’s a bit rough, but it dries quickly, doesn’t get heavy in the water, is breathable, and protects baby from the sun.

  • Solarweave Ring Slings – Solarweave is a sun protective woven nylon rip-stop fabric. It is soft and supportive, dries quickly, is readily available, and protects baby from the sun. It is not as breathable as Solarveil and tends to get a bit heavy in the water. It is great option if your child, like my first, is sensitive to polyester.

  • Athletic Mesh Wrap or Ring Sling – Athletic mesh is made of polyester. It is not sun protective, but it is soft, breathable, and dries quickly. It is less supportive than other options, but is also less expensive.

  • Stretchy Water Wraps – these wraps are made from the same polyester/lycra knit material as women’s bathing suits. They are soft and dry quickly, but tend to be a bit warmer than other options.

  • For those of you who prefer Soft Structured Carriers, I am not aware of a carrier that is marketed for use in the water. I suspect that the Boba Air may be suited to this use. I have an inquiry in to Boba to be sure that the carrier would not be damaged by use in water. I will update you with their response.

I hope that this gives you some ideas to stay cool(er) and keep babywearing through the summer months. Happy babywearing!

***EDIT*** I’ve received a response from Boba. The Boba Air is a water resistant carrier. It would be fine for use to play at a splash pad or run through a sprinkler or for wading, but should not be submerged for extended periods of time.

 

 

You can follow Sarah Rockwell @ http://www.specialconnectionsconsulting.com

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We Wear Babies

By Jay McMillin

 

What started out as a simple parenting tool, has become a bit of an… um… obsession?

 

It all began with the Moby wrap. I had come across one at Target when I did my baby registry, so I went ahead and asked for one. I didn’t really know anyone who “wore” their baby, but I was a little on the “crunchy” side and had seen some women walking around Berkeley wearing babies, so I decided to give it a try. When Dragon Baby was only 2 weeks old, I wrapped those layers of Jersey cotton around and around me in the heat of the California summer – and I made myself a sandwich. It was liberating. She fell asleep right away, and I was so excited that I left her in there until we both were drenched in sweat and red faced.

 

All that fabric was too much for me to contend with, so I marched right back to Target and checked out what other kind of baby carrying devices they might have for me to try out. The Target by my house did not have an Ergo or a Bjorn like many other ones I have since visited… and without knowing any better – I came home with an Infantino Swift (which I would later hear “lovingly” referred to as a crotch-dangler). It was quite uncomfortable, even with a little baby… but I was hooked. I loved the freedom and the ease of it. I loved that I could take her hiking on trails and not feel confined by the stroller. She loved being at my level and never fussed when she was riding in it. When I got home from our hiking adventures, I would be so sore I could barely move. Never mind that, I was glowing with pride and independence. Nobody could stop us now!

 

Lucky for me, I was a regular at La Leche League Meetings, and somebody saw me with this uncomfortable carrier and very sweetly encouraged me to check out the local Babywearing International group that was to be meeting the following week. Me and Dragon baby were always on the lookout for new friends and activities (I was new to the South Bay and had no other mommy friends to speak of), so I eagerly arrived at the meeting a week later with my baby strapped into her Infantino.

 

Many of the women there were helpful, though some a little overzealous. Imagine my horror when I was told that this narrow based carrier that I was wearing my daughter around in was apparently going to cause hip dysplasia, over stimulation, and possibly cause her to never walk again! The horror! Thankfully one of the leaders later informed me that all of these concerns were largely exaggerated and that narrow based carriers were not really dangerous, so much as uncomfortable… but at the time I felt like Dragon Baby had narrowly escaped permanent disfigurement. One of the women there was selling a ring sling, which I promptly bought and wore out of the meeting.

 

That ring sling was the beginning of the end of my disposable income for the next few years. It was a million times more comfortable than the Infantino, and it gave me real “street cred” in the babywearing community. Dragon Baby’s father was less than thrilled when I got rid of that silly Infantino. The ring sling was a little too “feminine” for his liking, and all the dads on T.V. had front facing carriers, so why couldn’t he? I conceded, and bought him an Ergo. You know, since he twisted my arm. Ha. I wore that thing EVERYWHERE for over a year. Grocery shopping, hiking, around the house, airports, farmers markets, you name it. Ergo went there. We loved it so much, we bought a second one – used. I honestly consider it to be the most comfortable, accessible, user friendly carrier in my stash to this day. Only problem, was it didn’t appeal to my fashion sense. Long time retail employee and lover of all things fashionable, I was dying of embarrassment when we’d stop by the local hipster coffee shop and they’d all turn their noses up at that “lady with a baby”. How could I be the young, hot mom that I dreamed of being with this baby backpack strapped to me?! The realization was almost immediate. I needed to wrap.

 

A dear friend of mine I had met at BWI was really into woven wraps. I remember disagreeing rather passionately with her about the ease and practicality of the wrap versus the SSC (soft structured carrier). “You would look ridiculous doing that in a parking lot” I scoffed. Months later with my tail between my legs, I found myself asking her about “that babywearing swap thing” she was always talking about. She enthusiastically filled me in on all the places to buy them. And buy them I did. Months later and (I can’t say exactly how much because hubby might kill me) some dollars later… I am a wrap fanatic. I’m what is known in the community as a “churner”, buying and selling and trading over and over to try out all kinds of new fabrics, blends, patterns, weavers and lengths of wraps.

 

My daughter has become my favorite fashion accessory. People don’t scoff at the “lady wearing her baby” when I’m walking around with her in these elegant woven art pieces. People smile, women ask where I got them from, and men tell me they wish someone could carry them around like that. (Seriously. They say that. Creepy, right?) Every formal occasion we attend first begins with “what wrap am I wearing?” and the outfit evolves from there. My simple head to toe black on black attire is made into high fashion with this amazing patterns and weaves. I wear them the way I used to wear scarves… but with a baby inside. I know it’s a strange hobby, but how amazing is it to be able to wear your baby close to you, keep her safe and happy… all the while looking like a piece of high fashion? Dragon Baby shares in my obsession. Every time a new Tyvek envelope comes in the mail, her eyes light up and she starts to shout “Wrap! Wrap! Wrap!” I go ahead and let her open them and twirl them around herself awhile before I wrestle it out of her hands and toss her up on my back to try it out.

 

I’ll be sad when the day comes when she is too big to be wrapped anymore. I will slowly sell off all my beautiful fabric masterpieces one at a time and probably sob over each one. They will go on to wrap other babies in different states or countries – other newborns or toddlers – and I will take my place in the histories of these individual wraps and their many travels. I might keep one or two around – just in case one day on a whim, if she is feeling sick or scared or vulnerable, she asks me to wrap her up like I used to do. With my heart all a-flutter, I’ll do just that.

 

 

 

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